It almost sounds like an oxymoron, sleeping in separate bedrooms as a married couple and actually increase the intimacy and craziness of your sex life? It can’t possibly be but that is something a lot of married couples are counting on these days. You’ve probably no doubt heard that one in four married couples sleep in, not just separate beds, but separate rooms.
The fact that they can now truly spend some real alone time with themselves is one of the big reasons that couple seem to really like this arrangement. Alone time, true alone time, is really hard to come by these days and this makes a lot of sense and can definitely help to strengthen the relationship.
For the rest of this article, you are going to learn some fun ways that you can really boost the romance in your life by sleeping apart from your spouse.
The first thing is you want to make sure you personal bed is incredibly comfortable so you’ll need some luxury bedding. The reason this is vital is because it’s a tough thought not to think about… your spouse laying in some luxury… pretty enticing huh?
The goal is really to decorate your room in a way that is yours but still have it so elegant that some nights the thought of you sleeping in it will drag your spouse for a nightly visit. Having a great bed is the way to do this. The best choice, especially if you’ve never tried it, would be silk sheets. But if you want to save some money then you can go for bamboo sheets because that is great too.
Your spouse’s bed and your bed should really be something big like a queen. We’ve mentioned before that one goal is go have your spouse visit your bed for some sleep overs so you want a bed big enough for maximum comfort.
While this next tip is not for everybody, it might be a lot of fun… get a third bed. The third bed would be your crazy luxury bed for those close intimate nights while you’re other beds are just going to be mainly for sleeping.
Here’s a good video to explain this trend more:
One last benefit of sleeping in separate rooms is both you and your spouse will have much better sleeps, especially if you’re on separate sleep schedules which most people are.